You spent years managing their emotional crises, apologizing for things you didn't do, and silencing your own needs because they were always the one suffering more. But what if their victimhood was never genuine? What if it was a calculated performance designed to trap you?Emotional martyrdom is one of the most insidious manipulation tactics in the narcissistic playbook. It's how a narcissistic parent casts themselves as the perpetual victim while systematically controlling everyone around them. When you tried to set boundaries, suddenly you were the cruel one. When you needed support, their crisis conveniently overshadowed your needs. When you questioned their behavior, their suffering was ready as evidence of your heartlessness.In this episode, we're unpacking the psychology behind weaponized victimhood and why it's so effective at keeping you trapped in cycles of guilt, caretaking, and self-abandonment.• Why narcissists use their pain as a shield against accountability—and how this destroys your ability to trust your own reality• The subtle ways a victim narrative becomes a tool of control that rewires your nervous system to prioritize their feelings over your safety• How you were trained to believe that expressing your needs makes you the aggressor in the dynamic• A shocking truth: the exhaustion and confusion you felt wasn't weakness—it was the predictable result of interacting with someone whose emotions were tactical, not genuine🔗 Additional Healing Resources & Support: 👉 movingforwardafterabuse.com📚 **Books by Lynn** 👉 Go Here  🎓 **Online Course: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery** 👉 Start the Course🤍**Coaching with Lynn** 1:1 Connect with Lynn - Coaching🧘‍♀️ **Somatic Healing Audio Sessions** 👉 Listen Now 📥 **Downloadables: Ebooks, Worksheets & More** 👉 Visit the Store💬 **Join the Exclusive Community on Supercast** 👉 Become a Member🎁 **Support the Show** 👉 Tip Jar📱 **Connect on Social Media** 👉 Visit our Linktree⭐ *****Benefiting from the Show? *****Leave us a Positive Review***** Our Gumroad Store Social Media Narcissistic Abuse Recovery CourseGrief and Loss from Narcissistic Abuse Recovery WorkbookSomatic Audio Healing Sessions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emotional Martyrdom: How Narcissists Play Victim to Control

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