You were taught to be &#39;nice,&#39; to &#39;not make waves,&#39; to be the easy-going girl who doesn&#39;t cause trouble. These weren&#39;t just parenting choices—they were deliberate messages about your worth relative to everyone else&#39;s comfort. And by the time you were five years old, you&#39;d already internalized a dangerous belief: that your feelings mattered less than keeping the peace. What you didn&#39;t realize then was that you were being systematically prepared to tolerate emotional neglect, to minimize your own needs, and to prioritize everyone else&#39;s well-being over your own. This conditioning didn&#39;t happen in isolation. It was reinforced by teachers, family members, peers, and the culture itself. And it created a template that narcissistic family members and partners would exploit ruthlessly for years to come.• How early gender conditioning becomes the invisible foundation that narcissistic systems build their control on—and why you blamed yourself instead of recognizing the pattern• The specific ways patriarchy trains girls to doubt their own perceptions about mistreatment, making them the perfect targets for emotional neglect• Why you were taught to celebrate the bare minimum and overlook major harm—and how this made you vulnerable to someone who gave just enough to keep you hoping• The shocking realization about what your instincts were actually telling you all along, and why the culture trained you to distrust themIf you grew up feeling like your needs were &#39;too much&#39; or believing that being understanding and accommodating was your highest responsibility, this episode traces how that conditioning set you up for the specific dynamics of narcissistic abuse—and what it actually means to break free from it.🔗 Additional Healing Resources &amp; Support: 👉 movingforwardafterabuse.com📚 **Books by Lynn** 👉 Go Here  🎓 **Online Course: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery** 👉 Start the Course🤍**Coaching with Lynn** 1:1 Connect with Lynn - Coaching🧘‍♀️ **Somatic Healing Audio Sessions** 👉 Listen Now 📥 **Downloadables: Ebooks, Worksheets &amp; More** 👉 Visit the Store💬 **Join the Exclusive Community on Supercast** 👉 Become a Member🎁 **Support the Show** 👉 Tip Jar📱 **Connect on Social Media** 👉 Visit our Linktree⭐ *****Benefiting from the Show? *****Leave us a Positive Review***** Top Episodes on the Patriarchy:Episode 109: When the Whole World Acts Like Your Ex.Episode 106: How Societal Gaslighting, Love Bombing, and Manipulation Became Cultural NormsEp. 103 The Awakening: How Narcissistic Abuse Patterns Are Embedded in Every System Women FaceEp. 102 Emotionally Absent: When Patriarchy Teaches Men to DisconnectEp. 92 Why Patriarchy Indirectly Teaches Silence, Isolation, and Your ComplianceEp. 100 Covert Sabotage: How to Recognize Hidden Psychological Warfare in RelationshipsEp. 84 How Misogyny is the Rite of Passage for MasculinityOur Gu

Patriarchal Conditioning: How Girls Learn to Accept Neglect

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