You felt it—that sting of resistance when you started succeeding, thinking independently, or moving forward with your life. The person who used to put you down suddenly became cold, critical, or hostile when you achieved something meaningful. But what if that resistance isn't random? What if it's actually a sign that you're breaking free from something far more damaging than you realized?In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore the unsettling truth about why abusers, narcissistic parents, and scapegoaters actively resist your growth, your ambition, and your ability to think critically. It's not jealousy. It's not about your success threatening theirs. It's about something much deeper—control, power, and the carefully constructed hierarchy they've built that depends entirely on keeping you small.When you were assigned the role of the scapegoat, you served a very specific function. You absorbed the family's dysfunction so everyone else could feel superior. Your role required you to be the problem, the failure, the difficult one. But what happens when you step out of that role? What happens when you start succeeding, healing, and seeing clearly?They can't afford for you to think too clearly. They can't tolerate your independence. Your critical thinking exposes the truth about who was really creating the problems all along.This episode reveals:• Why your progress feels like a direct threat to the person who scapegoated you—and it's not what you think• The hidden mechanism that makes your ambition and success so dangerous to narcissistic systems• How your critical thinking undermines the power structure that abuse was built on• The specific ways resistance to your growth actually proves you're healing• What it means when family members, partners, or authority figures suddenly become hostile after you start succeedingYou're not imagining the backlash. You're not crazy for noticing that growth feels risky in certain relationships. The resistance you're experiencing is real, it's purposeful, and it's trying to keep you trapped in a role that was never yours to play.If you've ever wondered why the people closest to you seemed threatened by your progress, this episode holds the answers—and the validation you need to keep moving forward.Our Gumroad Store Social Media Narcissistic Abuse Recovery CourseGrief and Loss from Narcissistic Abuse Recovery WorkbookSomatic Audio Healing Sessions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why Abusers Hate Your Progress & Growth

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