How many times have you said something like, we'll work on our marriage when... the kids get a little older, our business is more successful or we have more money/time? I'm here to share why this approach may cost you more than you think. This heartfelt episode peels back the layers on the myth that there's a "right time" to focus on your spouse and kids, revealing how this mindset can lead to emotional disconnection and even conflict. I'm offering practical strategies to ensure your marriage thrives no matter what stage of child-rearing, business or financial stability you are in.  Discover how to intertwine a relationship-first philosophy into your busy schedule, avoiding the pitfalls that many ambitious parents or entrepreneurs fall into.It's all about action – realigning your daily priorities to put your marriage and family front and center.  We'll talk about gratitude practices, the magic of date nights, and the irreplaceable value of quality time with your family. And for those who find striking this balance challenging, I open up about how professional help, like the services I provide, can revolutionize your relationships. Tune in for a powerful reminder that your greatest achievements should never come at the cost of the relationships that mean the most.

Warning: Don't Wait Another Minute to Prioritize Your Marriage

Unlock the secret ingredients to a lasting and loving relationship with Dr. Sara Nassarzadeh's profound insights. In this episode, we explore the six foundational elements that she believes are crucial for a flourishing partnership. From the allure of mutual attraction to the depth of shared vision, our conversation navigates the intricate dance of love, compassion, and daily loving behaviors. Dr. Sara's groundbreaking perspectives, as presented in her book "Love by Design," challenge the conventional molds, emphasizing how individuality and unity can coexist in a harmonious balance.At the heart of our discussion lies the transformative power of compassion and the art of empathy in navigating the sometimes tumultuous journey of togetherness. We address the challenges and triumphs of being present for our partners in times of misunderstanding, drawing upon personal experiences and the wisdom of relationship experts like Gottman. By tuning in, you'll grasp how the small, consistent acts of kindness can weave a tapestry of enduring love, turning 'happily ever after' from a myth into an achievable reality. Join us in this heartfelt exploration, and let's design love that lasts a lifetime.Join us for the FREE 3-Day Live Seduce Your Spouse Challenge starting on March 5th. Register at --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/syslive

How to Create a Love by Design with Dr. Sara Nassarzadeh

Do you ever feel like you're juggling too many hats, trying to be the perfect businessperson, parent, and romantic partner all at once? In this episode, I'm unpacking the art of transitioning between the demands of work, the responsibilities of parenting, and the pleasures of romance with your partner. We explore the nuances of adapting to each role without losing your sense of self or the spark in your relationship.I'm going to give you insight into a  woman's mind, filled with endless 'mental tabs' that can sometimes hinder intimacy. I'll share my top strategies for closing those tabs, setting boundaries, and creating sacred spaces that signal it's time to shift into lover mode. Plus, you won't want to miss the details on my upcoming "Seduce Your Spouse Challenge," a three-day challenge designed to fan the flames of passion in your marriage.  Register here --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/sysliveWhether you're looking to enhance your connection or simply find more balance, this episode offers the practical advice and supportive insights you need to keep love thriving amid life's constant juggle.

Juggling Work, Family, and Romantic Transitions Without Losing Yourself

Ever found yourself let down after a holiday or special occasion? You're not alone. In this epsiode, I'm chatting with my friends Greg and Rachel Denning of Extraordinary Family Life. Together, we confront the perils of high expectations that holidays like Valentine's Day and anniversaries can bring. We talk about how communication acts as the cornerstone of a thriving relationship. We share personal stories to illustrate the power of planning and mutual effort in nurturing the bond between partners. It's about creating joy together and, perhaps more importantly, managing it so the mental load doesn't diminish the happiness you deserve.Lastly, we delve into the concept of 'relationship bank accounts,' emphasizing the significance of individual wholeness in marriage.  I share insights from my coaching experiences that can transform not just your relationship but also model a healthy, thriving partnership for your children. Check out this interview that promises to inject new vitality into your marital connection, leaving you equipped to create a more extraordinary family life.

How to Communicate Your Expectations Better with Greg and Rachel Denning

Ready to reshape your view on Valentine's Day and turn it into a day you both actually enjoy? Let's stop dropping hints and creating resentment from unmet expectations with some honest, heart-to-heart communication. This episode is all about replacing those last-minute scrambles with meaningful traditions and understanding. I'll walk you through the exact steps to engage in those crucial conversations with your sweetheart—setting the stage for clarity and connection, not just on February 14th but for every celebration your calendar holds.This week is about recognizing each other's efforts, celebrating progress, and infusing every occasion with genuine gratitude. And, for those looking for that perfect Valentine's gesture, why not make a pledge to regular, weekly date nights and documenting your love story with the Date Night Journal. Get yours before Valentine's Day by ordering before February 10th using this link --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/journal

Reimagining Your Romantic Traditions for More Intimacy and Gratitude

Have you ever wondered about the secret ingredients that make a partner irresistible?In this week's episode, I'm interviewing Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper International, who shares not only her professional expertise but also her personal story.  You'll hear how Kimberly's family history of divorce and reconciliation sets the stage for the transformative work she's passionate about and what she's doing next.Kimberly gives us the four crucial areas of attraction through her PIES framework and she breaks them all down.P - Physical AttractionI - Intellectual AttractionE - Emotional AttractionS - Spiritual AttractionMake sure you join us for this episode and take the Intimacy Quiz at the end if you haven't already --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/quiz

The Alchemy of Love and Attraction with Kimberly Beam Holmes

Ever found yourself caught in a tangle of misunderstandings with your partner, where every comment feels like a dig? I'm pulling back the curtain on the silent saboteur known as negative sentiment override. Learn how this mental habit can erode the very foundations of our relationships and some strategies to overcome it. We'll talk about the art of positive sentiment override, where the benefit of the doubt becomes a bridge to better communication and conflict resolution, using Dr. John Gottman's golden positivity ratio.Be sure to tune in transformative anecdotes and strategies, all designed to keep the flame of romance alive, turning everyday interactions with your Sweetheart into an ongoing honeymoon. As my gift to you for listening, download a copy of my 75 ways to show gratitude for your spouse at: www.monicatanner.com/gratitude

Cultivating Positive Sentiment Override for a More Passionate Connection

In this episode, I'm thrilled to introduce life coach, Julie Balkman, as we chat about the secrets of long-lasting love and romance.Join us as we discuss cultivating a love that endures through the years. We cover the importance of choosing a partner who values introspection and personal growth and moving beyond the superficiality of the dating scene to foster authentic, meaningful connections. This conversation isn't just about finding love; it's about nurturing it from the early stages of a relationship all the way to the golden years of marriage.We also explore the concept of a 'love tank' and how self-sufficiency plays a crucial role in relationship fulfillment. We talk about drawing happiness from various sources, like nature's beauty or a spiritual connection, especially during challenging times such as navigating a divorce. This episode is a guide to becoming a source of love, enriching not only your life but also that of your partner.But there's more! We share innovative ideas to inject new life into your marriage. From reading together (complete with foot rubs!) to transforming your usual date night into an exciting adventure, we provide actionable strategies to keep the flame alive. You'll learn about the power of collaborative decision-making in strengthening your bond and how to steer clear of common romance killers. Our conversation is packed with practical tips for expressing gratitude, managing expectations, and just having fun with your significant other.This episode is a call to action for every married couple seeking to reignite their spark. Tune in now to Reviving Romance and Intimacy with Dating Coach Julie Balkman and get one step closer to a more intimate, fulfilling marriage.For ongoing relational support and skill building, check out the Passionate Marriage Club here --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/club

Reviving Romance and Intimacy with Dating Coach Julie Balkman

Are you ready to supercharge your relationship in 2024?In this episode, I'm sharing a game-changing lesson from my own experiences in 2023 that I'm carrying forward to make this year the best yet! After examining the last year to understand what worked and what didn't, and embracing the lessons learned from challenging moments, I'm sharing with you a practice that will help ALL couples build more trust and intimacy this year. I'm revealing the key habits that keep couples thriving, including the essential practice of regular date nights. Click HERE to get my list of 102 creative winter date night ideas to make prioritizing time with your partner even easier.

How to Build a Foundation of Trust and Romance

Discover the secrets to maintaining both a successful business and a thriving marriage with Couplepreneurs founders Kyle and Ariel Tresch. On the heels of National Divorce Day, we're talking about how to foster unity, respect differences, and collaborate effectively to create a legacy of love and achievement.We discuss maintaining a clear and heartfelt dialogue with your significant other amidst the demands of entrepreneurship.  And, we cover creating a sanctuary at home, where you can transition into your most authentic selves, fostering a supportive and understanding environment.Please accept our invitation to the 2nd Annual Couplepreneur Live event, a space designed to ignite growth and magic for entrepreneurial couples. Don't miss out on this chance to transform not just your business, but the very fabric of your relationship. Learn more here --&gt; https://www.kyleandariel.com/cpliveLearn more about our community for committed couples who want to elevate their relational skillsets and get weekly creative date ideas here --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/club

Mastering the Balancing Act of Marriage and Business with Kyle and Ariel Tresch

Ever feel like your happiness is being held hostage to someone else's behavior? You're about to discover how to liberate it. Today's episode touches on 3 disempowering thought patterns that are making you miserable and how to break them so you can experience more joy and intimacy.1. The 'if-then' cycle, that pesky thought pattern that tricks us into believing our joy depends on our partners' actions. 2. Say goodbye to the unnoticed sacrifices of the martyr mentality, as we explore strategies to voice your needs and desires without the silent suffering. 3. Stop saying there's no time or energy for connection with your partner.This episode isn't just about avoiding the common pitfalls—it's a treasure trove of advice for those ready to rekindle the flame and choose love, every single day.Download 102 Winter Date Night Ideas to help you create fun and seasonal dates even in the busiest seasons --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/winterdatesCheck out the exclusive community for couples who are ready to experience more intimacy and connection. It's called the Passionate Marriage Club and you can get all the details here --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/club

3 Stinking Thinking Thought Patterns that Keep You Miserable and How to Break Them

Do the holidays feel more like chaos than coziness? During the festive rush, do you feel the intimacy with your spouse dwindling? I'm here to guide you how to maintain that spark during the busiest time of the year. This episode is full of easy and quick ways to fan the flames of intimacy, with creative date night ideas and meaningful ways to show your spouse they're your top priority.Don't let the holiday hustle cause you to lose sight of the one who matters the most – your partner. Amid the excitement of creating magic for the little ones and juggling a myriad of emotions, your bond with your spouse can often be neglected.  I'm sharing tips on how to keep your date nights alive (even at home), how to express your love and appreciation for your spouse, and of course, the importance of planning some sexy time amidst the decorations and gift-wrapping.Download 102 Winter Date Night Ideas to help you create fun and seasonal dates even in the busiest seasons --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/winterdates  And don't forget to take our intimacy level quiz at https://monicatanner.com/quiz to discover your intimacy level and get tips to enhance it. 

Maintaining Intimacy and Connection Amid Holiday Chaos

Today, we are talking about the law of sacred spaces.How can we delineate physically, mentally and emotionally the different hats we wear in our work life and personal life?You are not just an entrepreneur/employee or only a spouse – you are both, and your roles deserve equal attention. The harmony between business success and personal life fulfillment often sets the foundation for sustainable growth in both areas. Implementation: Set clear, actionable goals for your business and family. Develop a daily schedule where you allocate specific hours to your business, your family, and self-care. Have regular check-ins with your spouse to discuss each other's roles and challenges. Learn to delegate tasks both in business and at home. If you would like additional help with this or any other concept that strengthens your marriage and sets you up for success, consider checking out the Passionate Marriage Club here --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/club.

Creating Success in Life and Marriage Using the Law of Sacred Spaces

Ready to set yourself up for success in 2024? Bart and Sunny Miller have designed an enviable life together, and they're here to share their strategies on finishing your year on a high and laying the foundations for an even brighter new year. They break down their family life, businesses and how they have crafted their life together, underpinning everything with a want-want relationship.Bart and Sunny walk us through the art of managing business and marriage roles to keep both your work and love life flourishing. We also discuss the evolution of marriage, challenging traditional norms, and the importance of communication and setting mutual goals. From understanding your partner's love language to setting boundaries and revisiting roles and expectations, they share their wisdom for couples juggling personal and professional lives together.But, we don't stop there! Bart and Sunny also share invaluable insights into the dynamics of communication, especially concerning intimacy and sex. We explore shared calendars, planning, and goal setting as a couple for both business and personal events. They emphasize personal growth, mutual interests, and the importance of having fun in a relationship. If you haven't already, be sure to check out the Passionate Marriage Club to see how you can give your marriage the gift of passion this year --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/club.

Creating an Epic Marriage and Business with Bart and Sunny Miller

Are you tired of feeling frustrated because your partner doesn't seem to know what you want in your relationship? What if I told you that you have the power to change this dynamic and get more of what you desire? Communication and collaboration are the cornerstones of any successful relationship. But what does effective communication look like? But how do you go from feeling unheard to creating a culture where both you and your partner are getting more of what you desire? In this episode, I'll walk you through my 3-step framework for how you can get your partner's attention, make a specific and behavioral request, and encourage their progress, transforming your relationship in the process. We'll explore the secrets to getting more of what you want in your relationship.To go even deeper into these strategies, I'm hosting the Become the Hero Challenge and the Wise Wife Challenge starting on Monday, December 5th. Register for these challenges and join us for FREE.Husbands --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/herohusbandWives --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/wisewife

How to Get More of What You Want in Your Marriage Relationship

Ever struggle to get out of your cozy, warm bed on a cold morning? Trust me, I've been there too. But, what if I taught you a super simple hack to add to gratitude that will not only make it bearable but also transform your personal life and relationships? This is what we're exploring today! Through personal stories, I'll share how this simple change has made an impact in my own life. As we approach Thanksgiving, it's the perfect time to reflect on the profound effects of gratitude. The simple act of giving thanks can have a ripple effect on our lives and relationships. From gym routines to supporting friends and family, I'll share practical tips on how gratitude can become a natural part of our day to day lives. Let's embark on this journey together, and uncover the power of supercharging your gratitude with this little trick!We also have an exciting announcement: the Wise Wives Challenge and Become the Hero Husband Challenge are coming up on December 4th, promising to activate your partner's hero genes and bring more attention, affection, and appreciation into your relationship.Don't miss out on this opportunity to join us for these 2 FREE Live Challenges.Husbands, register for the Hero Husband Challenge --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/herohusbandWives, register for the Wise Wife Challenge --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/wisewife

Supercharging Your Gratitude with THIS Simple Hack

Picture this: you're sailing through the holiday season, fully present, stress-free, and basking in joy. Sounds dreamy, doesn't it? I'm here to tell you it's achievable! This episode is jam-packed with practical, actionable strategies for enjoying a truly joyful holiday season, instead of being lost in overwhelm. We talk about setting an intention for the season, being present, planning ahead, and filtering activities to engage in only those that are truly meaningful. Sounds good?I'm sharing how to maximize holiday traditions while reducing stress. Navigating the often chaotic holiday schedules and finances can be daunting, but with the right approach, they can serve us rather than drain us. To sum it all I'm, I'm giving you 3 tangible tools to feel more peaceful and connected no matter what is actually happening around you this holiday season.If you haven't already, be sure to take my FREE 3-minute intimacy level quiz to find out what level of intimacy you have in your marriage right now and what you can do to improve it --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/quiz

Practical Strategies for a Meaningful and Joyful Holiday Season

Ready to shake up the way we teach our kids about money? Join me as I sit down with Scott Donnell, best-selling author and host of the Smart Money Parenting podcast, putting the spotlight on financial literacy for the younger generation. Scott is on a mission to empower 50 million children and parents with financial competence through Gravy Stack, a gamified bank account for kids and teens. We're not just talking piggy banks and pocket money here; we're breaking down the poverty mindset and taking responsibility for our kids' financial education.It's time to rethink the way we approach teaching financial skills to our children. For the past decade, Scott has been leading the charge, using platforms like business fairs and Grapestack to impart financial literacy basics to families. We dive into the mechanics of his home economy system, built around the three E’s: expectations, expenses, and extra pay. This isn't just about counting coins; it's about teaching children to make sound financial decisions, managing their money, and understanding the value of work.We also touch upon the pressing need to build a generation of deeply connected, confident, and capable individuals. We're talking about equipping them with the skills they need to navigate the world.  So how do we do this? We're sharing insights on setting up a home money system that supports your children's financial education and prepares them for a secure future. So join us, learn, and start the conversation about money with your own families.And if you liked this episode and want some further training from Scott, be sure to register for this FREE webclass we're hosting --&gt; https://monicatanner.com/moneykids

Teaching Your Kids How to be Money-Savvy with Scott Donnell

What if your relationship could be the secret to a booming business? In a fascinating chat with the sensational duo, Jen Gottlieb and Chris Winfield, I'm uncovering the secret to BE SEEN. This extraordinary couple, not only share a beautiful love story but also a multiple eight-figure business. Their journey, marked by challenges and victories, is a testimony to what a supportive partnership can achieve. This episode is a special one as it also features the launch of Jen's new book, BE SEEN, a must-read for anyone seeking to enhance their visibility in business and relationships. Our conversation goes beyond business success and delves into the dynamic personal life of Jen and Chris. We talk communication, accountability, vulnerability, and juggling the demands of work and play. As mentors, they have made a significant impact on many entrepreneurs' lives, and their approach provides a unique roadmap for those seeking harmony in their relationships. Discover how they maintain their energy levels while remaining constantly in the spotlight and learn the importance of supporting one another’s goals in a partnership.We wrap up this episode with an enlightening discussion on personal branding, decision-making, and maintaining fulfilling relationships. Jen and Chris offer invaluable strategies on how to consistently show up in business and relationships, how to sail through life's challenges using the mantra 'this too shall pass', and how to harness the power of AI and storytelling to make an impact.  So get ready for a riveting conversation that promises to redefine how you perceive intimate relationships and entrepreneurship. Get a copy of Jen's new book, BE SEEN --&gt; https://beseenbook.comDownload a FREE resource on How to Get More Support from Your Spouse --&gt; https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/spousesupport

How to Be Seen with Entrepreneur Power Couple Jen Gottlieb and Chris Winfield

You know those moments when your heart is pulsing, your palms are sweaty, and your thoughts are racing a hundred miles a minute? That's emotion at its rawest and most powerful, and today, we're turning the tables on how we view these intense feelings. Instead of seeing them as destructive forces, we're chatting with life coach Jill Freestone about how to harness these big emotions to strengthen family bonds and deepen our relationships. Jill helps us explore the concept of emotional safety in our relationships - that crucial foundation that enables true vulnerability and connection. She shares a poignant family example, shedding light on how unchecked emotions can lead to a disconnect. We talk about strategies for establishing emotional safety, from learning to communicate effectively to being fully present for intimate conversations. We also discuss self-regulation, and how managing our own emotional states can create a nurturing environment for connection.Jill addresses how to teach emotional intelligence to kids and manage big emotions in teenagers. She shares insightful tips on creating safe spaces for children to express their feelings and demonstrates how to effectively self-regulate. We also touch upon the controversial topic of screen time and its impact on emotions and parent-child communication. Wrapping up, we dive into practical advice from Jill on managing big emotions and their resultant behavior changes. It's a great episode that's going to change how you relate to your emotions, making them your allies rather than adversaries.

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