When you want to shift something in your life, sometimes the scale of the change can seem daunting. So how do you get from point A to point B (or...point Z) in a way that&#39;s actually doable - and sustainable? It can be tempting to take drastic actions to make big changes - but you might sabotage your changes by falling into your old habits. Today we&#39;ll talk about how you can create positive changes in your relationship, or something else in your life, in a way that&#39;s practical, and relatively easy - no matter how big the change. As always, I’m looking forward to your thoughts on this episode and what revelations and questions it creates for you. Please join us in the  Relationship Alive Community on Facebook to chat about it! Sponsors: Find a quality therapist, online, to support you and work on the places where you’re stuck. For 10% off your first month, visit Betterhelp.com/ALIVE to fill out the quick questionnaire and get paired with a therapist who’s right for you. Resources: Check out my Secrets of Relationship Communication COURSE for a masterclass in how to improve the communication and connection in your relationship. I want to know you better! Take the quick, anonymous, Relationship Alive survey FREE Guide to Neil’s Top 3 Relationship Communication Secrets Guide to Understanding Your Needs (and Your Partner’s Needs) in Relationship (ALSO FREE) Support the podcast (or text “SUPPORT” to 33444) Amazing intro and outro music provided courtesy of The Railsplitters Transcript: Neil Sattin: Hello and welcome to another episode of Relationship Alive. This is your host, Neil Sattin. Today&#39;s topic is going to be how we can create big changes in our lives, but in ways that are sustainable. Because if you do something big to change your life but then you just fall back into old patterns, well, you&#39;re going to get the same results you&#39;ve always gotten. Do the same thing, get the same results. So how can you create a big change in a way that you&#39;re going to be able to keep going, that you&#39;re going to be able to follow through on, so that it doesn&#39;t become just some other big resolution or a promise that you make to yourself that you can&#39;t keep? That is what we are going to talk about in today&#39;s episode, and I&#39;m going to use an example from my personal life that I&#39;ve experienced over the past few months so that you can get a sense of what I&#39;m talking about. Neil Sattin: First, I just want to say thank you for being here with me. This wouldn&#39;t be a show without you being here with me to talk about relationship issues, and all these different facets of how to show up more fully in our lives, in our relationship with ourselves and in our relationship with the people who are most important to us. So thank you for being here with me. Neil Sattin: Okay, I think that&#39;s it. Let&#39;s get on with the show, shall we? So when it comes to making big changes in your life, a lot of people t

244: A Practical Approach for Big Changes

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