What do you do when you feel like you&#39;re the only one doing the work in your relationship? When things would just fall apart if you weren&#39;t on top of it? Or what can you do if things aren&#39;t going so well, and you&#39;re the only one who seems to care enough to try and make things different? And how do you know when it&#39;s time to stop trying...and walk away? It turns out there are a lot of options available to you - and some of them will probably surprise you! As always, I’m looking forward to your thoughts on this episode and what revelations and questions it creates for you. Please join us in the  Relationship Alive Community on Facebook to chat about it! Sponsors: Find a quality therapist, online, to support you and work on the places where you’re stuck. For 10% off your first month, visit Betterhelp.com/ALIVE to fill out the quick questionnaire and get paired with a therapist who’s right for you. Want something new to entertain you? Acorn TV is a commercial-free streaming service that’s rooted in British television. It’s home to sophisticated and artful storytelling with top-rated mysteries, dramas that pull you in, heart-felt comedies and so much more. So - Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat. Try Acorn TV free for 30 days, by going to acorn.tv and using the promo code “alive” (all lowercase) at checkout. Resources: Check out my Secrets of Relationship Communication COURSE for a masterclass in how to improve the communication and connection in your relationship. I want to know you better! Take the quick, anonymous, Relationship Alive survey FREE Guide to Neil’s Top 3 Relationship Communication Secrets Guide to Understanding Your Needs (and Your Partner’s Needs) in Relationship (ALSO FREE) Support the podcast (or text “SUPPORT” to 33444) Amazing intro and outro music provided courtesy of The Railsplitters Transcript: Neil Sattin: So the very first thing that you want to get clear on is what is the work that we&#39;re talking about? Are we literally talking about the work of, say, running your household. Domestic duties, grocery shopping, cooking meals, cleaning, taking care of balancing the checkbook... If you still balance your checkbook. Whatever it is, is that the kind of work that we&#39;re talking about? Or are we talking about things like stepping back and thinking about the quality of your relationship and whether or not it&#39;s what you want it to be. Neil Sattin: And if it isn&#39;t what you want it to be, putting in energy to try and make it different. Whether that&#39;s going to counseling or a coach, or reading a lot of books, or listening to podcasts. And then trying to bring everything that you&#39;re learning and all the perspectives that you&#39;re getting on how to do a relationship better to your relationship. Maybe that&#39;s the kind of work that you&#39;re talking about. Neil Sattin: It&#39;s important to get really clear on what you mean when you say... If you are t

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