tl;dr JoEllen Notte is here to help us explore depression, relationships, and how depression and mental health can impact sex and desire, plus connecting during a pandemic.   Explore More Summit is happening NOW! Grab your free ticket by registering today for this free, entirely online conference that happens April 20-29th featuring 28 delicious, timely, intimate talks. Head to exploremoresummit.com and register. We&#39;ve got Pleasure Mechanics, Rachel Cole, Prentis Hemphill, Andrea Glik, Jennifer Mullan, Kai Cheng Thom, and so many others. Don&#39;t miss it!   Patrons who support at $3 and above, this week you get to hear a bonus chat between JoEllen and I on this cultural idea that people with depression are essentially asexual, desexualized humans and what JoEllen actually found in all of her research plus looking at sex as an a la carte menu versus a buffet. (And Eeyore masturbating totally gets talked about.) Hear it at patreon.com/sgrpodcast.   In this episode, JoEllen and I talk about her new book, &quot;The Monster Under the Bed&quot; which is all about sex, depression, and relationships.   We talk about how the entire world is coping and struggling with depression, anxiety, panic, and trying to survive the unknown. How normal it is to be feeling numb and disconnected while also feeling more emotional and tender.   We explore how being in close quarters with a partner can lead to a reckoning with our relationships, important questions to ask ourselves during these times when we&#39;re wondering if our relationship is the problem or just how terrible things are in general and how to tease out whether it&#39;s the person or the relationship.   JoEllen and I share some of the catastrophizing stories our brains like to tell us and ways we cope, plus communicating our mental health needs with a partner and why context matters SO much when it comes to our libido and pleasure.   JoEllen also cannot stress enough how important it is to read Emily Nagoski&#39;s &quot;Come As You Are&quot; if you haven&#39;t already.   Be sure to send in your questions! I would love to hear from you. Use the contact form at dawnserra.com.   Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram.   About JoEllen Notte:   JoEllen Notte is a certified sex educator, writer, speaker, sexuality researcher, and mental health advocate. She blogs at The Redhead Bedhead and has been published by the BBC, Glamour, Bitch Media, xoJane, and Kinkly. JoEllen&#39;s book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren&#39;t Having will be released on March 27, 2020.   Stay in touch with JoEllen at redheadbedhead.com and get a copy of The Monster Under the Bed at your favorite local bookstore.   Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real     Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don&#39;t forget about I Heart Radio&#39;s Spreaker  Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Stream it on Spotify Find the Sex

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