tl;dr Is squirting embarrassing? How can I find a fat-friendly therapist? What if my marriage is falling apart?   News!    Patrons who support at $3 and above, you&#39;re invited to join the Explore More book club. We are meeting in December to discuss Jenny Odell&#39;s &quot;How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy&quot;, so check out my new post at patreon.com/sgrpodcast.    This week, it&#39;s me and you!   An awesome video called  &quot;How to Support Harm Does in Accountability&quot; came across my feed this week, and it turns out it&#39;s part of a multi-video series by the Barnard Center for Research on Women featuring Mia Mingus, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, adrienne maree brown, and a bunch of other amazing folks. Definitely check them all out.   How can we become more committed to collective healing and safety? What do we need to let go of in order to center the most marginalized? I explore this a bit as I share a few quotes and tidbits from the videos.   Then, we dive into your questions.   Sad Gay Millennial and SaFyre both wrote in this week with really sweet notes about how the show has helped them. I&#39;m holding them so tenderly.   Ina wrote to me about being in a fat body and finding support. How can you find a fat-friendly therapist? I have resources for you to check out at dawnserra.com/ep282.   Regardless of who you have near you for support, I recommend asking lots of questions about their values and going in with a list of requests and boundaries that would help you to feel more safe and supported.   Is squirting embarrassing? Amy wrote in because she squirts and after she does, she often feels really embarrassed and worried about the mess she made. Her current boyfriend is really supportive, but she wants to know if there&#39;s a way to feel less awkward about the mess her body makes.   Finally, Emotionally Wrecked Matt wrote in because he lost weight last year and as a result his wife has experienced a lot of insecurity and withdrawal. Sex isn&#39;t what it used to be, feelings are hurt, and now they&#39;ve shared some fantasies with each other that left the other feeling even more hurt. What can he do?   As much as there is to dive into in this email, what&#39;s clear is that Matt and his wife need some support. Repair needs to come before adventure and play, so let&#39;s talk about that.   Have questions of your own you&#39;d like featured on the show? Send me a note using the contact form in the navigation above!     Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram.   About Dawn Serra:   What if everything you’ve been taught about relationships, about your body, about sex is wrong? My name is Dawn Serra and I dare to ask scary questions that might lead us all towards a deeper, more connected experience of our lives. In addition to being the host of the weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real, the creator of the online conference Explore More, I also work one-on-one with clients who ar

Sex Gets Real 282: Squirting, fat-friendly therapist, & when a marriage falls apart

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